new-years-day-1062608_1280I’m done with New Year’s resolutions. Never have been a fan.

The reason? More often than not, we find ourselves sad at the end of the year when we realize once again we have failed to deliver on our expectations by not sticking to those resolutions (made in a moment of insanity) before the clock struck midnight on December 31st.

So, no resolutions for me.

Something I always commit to is an annual plan, with goals for me and my business including time frames. Using a grease board, I write down my goals for the year, including strategy and tactics for achievement. I’ve found this to be more realistic and I can actually say I’ve achieved my goals. Maybe not every single one, but most of them.

Looking ahead at my goals for 2016, one word comes to mind: Purge.

It’s not so much a word for me as it is a movement towards newness and away from things that are no longer working. To me, “purging” consists of getting rid of unnecessary items, words or thoughts that are standing in the way of my success.

If I’m going to be the best at what I do, then purging those things that are no longer helping me be productive needs to be my number one priority.

Let me share what I’ll be working on; here are 5 areas to “purge” for success in 2016:

  1. Office and desk. I’ll admit I have a love affair with office supplies, especially notebooks and pens. My color-coordinated file folders are great but they need to be in the file drawer, not on top of my desk. As a result, my environment is not conducive to working which makes it tough to stay focused. Purging my desk of extra pens, notebooks and other stuff to help me focus is a top priority.
  2. Habits. Checking email, Facebook, Twitter and a host of other online sites is a habit that’s gotten out of hand. As a marketer, I can argue that all of these are necessary for my work. True, but there’s got to be a limit to when and how much time I allow myself for this. Goal: Purge the “random checking” of these sites and replace the habit with “scheduled” checking to better manage my time.
  3. Email. Thousands of emails clutter my inbox. Simple purge here: set aside a few hours one day to delete all but the most recent emails. Going forward, delete email weekly, if not daily.
  4. Resume. Despite the fact that I revise my resume at least once a year, I still need to purge items that are no longer needed and look for better ways to tell my story. This is an often over-looked task for most people, who rarely review their entire resume, only adding new information at the top as-needed. Yet unnecessary words and/or phrases may actually be harmful to a person during a job search.
  5. Thoughts. Sometimes I am my own worst enemy when it comes to moving forward with a project or idea. In an attempt to understand all sides of the project, I can focus on the negative rather than the positive. I plan to purge these thoughts and replace them with my plan for success.

There are more areas I could purge, yet I want to achieve my goals so I’ll start here. When I achieve these, I’ll add more.

Stuck with what to achieve this year yourself? Feel free to use my word, Purge. Start with your resume and move forward from there. Add your desk, maybe a habit or two; even your email if your inbox is full.

If you get really adventurous, attack your clothes closet. That’s what I plan to do next.

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New Year’s resolutions: I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again now, I really HATE them.

Why? Because we tend to set ourselves up for failure. We may as well call them “New Year’s Failures”.

On January 1st we state our resolutions, listing all the things we plan to achieve during the next twelve months. We are certain that THIS YEAR will be DIFFERENT from every other year.

Our intentions are good yet for most of us, somewhere along the way we get side-tracked. Life Happens. And our resolutions take a back seat to other things.

Come December, we feel bad that we failed in our attempt.  So we state, “THIS YEAR WILL BE DIFFERENT.”

And we try again.

It’s a vicious cycle; one that I normally don’t participate in since I know that I won’t stick to any resolutions.

Case in point: For years I’ve tried for abs of steel and for years the donut shop has won, despite my strategy of limiting my donut intake and increasing my workouts.

No, I’m not totally giving up donuts. That would be terrible and I’m convinced that there’s a way to incorporate donuts into my life while achieving abs of steel.

This year, though, I’m going to try a few resolutions again.  Perhaps I’ve gained wisdom with age and this time I will be able to stick to my resolutions.

They may not seem like much to you, yet they are important to me.

Here we go; my resolutions for 2015:

Find a new phrase for “Yes, but…..”   

This is my go-to phrase in conversations when discussing or brainstorming almost anything. It slips out without my even knowing it.  In my mind I’m trying to be helpful and think of all the possible outcomes, what if it went this way, but that happened, etc.  Apparently to others this is a negative phrase.  Who knew?   I definitely don’t mean it to be negative – it’s just me, thinking out loud.

Be more selfish.

This sounds odd yet it is necessary.  I love to help others.  So much so that I push my own work and needs aside.  That means that my goals – and work – are almost an afterthought.  And this is not good for my business, my productivity, and, ultimately, those I am trying to help.  This does not mean I will not help others; it simply means that I must prioritize my work. And sometimes that means putting me first. 

Step Out of My Comfort Zone

You may think this is easy for me. Let me assure you that it’s not always easy, even for me, to step outside of my comfort zone. It’s hard to do this because it means opening ourselves up for failure. Yet I plan to do that this year.  It may be something as simple as signing up for a Hip-Hop class, or something more drastic.  Who knows? But I will push my boundaries.

Finish What I’ve Started

This should be a no-brainer and it goes along with #2, being more selfish.  Mid-2014 I signed up for an online self-study course with the goal to finish it during the year and I let work get in the way.  Now this is moving to the front. I will finish this course.

There you have it; my resolutions for 2015.  I will report back to you at the end of the year to see if I achieved all of them, or any of them.

And we’ll see how my abs of steel look. Not holding out any hope on that one.